So on this weekend of reflection and giving thanks I'll post some of the things I'm thankful for and maybe even a little reason why. We ALL have something to be thankful for, so take a moment to yourself today and find what that is. Many are obvious, some not so much. Let's start to focus on all the good in our lives. There's just way too much negativity and disappointment these days.
So of course, I am thankful for my boys. To be honest, I'm thankful they aren't girls! They are dramatic all in their own right so I can't imagine mixing estrogen in with all that! I am thankful that overall, so far, they've been relatively easy to raise. I'm thankful for the close and trusting relationship I have with both of them. I'm thankful that they still tell me they love me, unsolicited. I'm thankful that they talk to me about all sorts of stuff. Nothing is really off the table. I'm thankful some blip in the universe thought to make me their mom.
I'm thankful for Eric. I'm grateful that the timing in our worlds was right. I'm grateful for a partner who is on the same page as me, who wants similar things despite our differences. I'm thankful for how wonderfully he treats me. I'm thankful that he still finds me as beautiful as he did when we first started dating (inside and out). I'm appreciative that he's pretty damn handy and tolerates all of my requests. He's
After three and a half years I'm able to say I'm thankful that my dad passed away the way he did (no not thankful he died, just how he died). No lengthy drawn out pain and suffering and having all of his family put their differences aside and gather around him to send him off with mountains of love and respect. I think I've decided, in an ideal world, that's how I'd like to go.
Much appreciation for my almost 13 year old nephew. He has taught me to be a way better person. He has taught me acceptance and continuously opens my eyes to the pretty spectacular miracle that is the human brain. He has shown me the value of perseverance.
So of course that means I'm also thankful for my spunky 6 year old niece. She gives me the gift of a sassy, hilarious, smart mouthed daughter without being my daughter! She brings a belly full of laughter every time I see her. She makes every day stresses (for me any way) melt away in her presence. I can hardly wait to stand by and watch during the teen years.
My friends give me so, SO much to be thankful for! I seriously surround myself with the best group of people. I genuinely believe I have no toxicity in this department. I love all of them, near and far, old and new. I love that I don't feel pressure to be in touch with every one of them on a daily basis to be able to maintain these relationships. Every one of my friends contributes to my life in their own way. They are all unique and different, and I need every one of them!
I'm thankful for my
My family (mom, dad, brother, sister and sister in law)! Did you think I was forgetting you? Pfft. I'm so blessed with a kooky and unique family who are also relatively boring and drama free. They are dependable and I know they are always near by. I know we can't choose our blood family, but in this case if I'd been able to, I'm not entirely certain I'd choose any differently. I'm still trying to figure out who they are! This much I do know; they are the people I've known the longest; they were my very first friends and frenemies; they are a constant; they are home.
My health. I'm thankful that I'm relatively healthy (I think). I'm grateful for the Health System here in Canada. Despite all its known flaws, when I have a fear or illness I can "afford" to see a doctor to ease my mind and body.
I'm thankful for my furry little friends, those that co-habitate with me now and those that have already left my side. They seem to always know when they need to be near and even when they don't. They offer what I'd like to believe is unconditional love and not just a "sucking up so I'll feed them" move.
I'm thankful for my house and the literal roof over our heads. I'm grateful for my ability to pay for it. With each new project this house has become a home.
I'm appreciative of my cell phone, Facebook and Instagram. As hokey as it sounds they keep me more involved in the lives of those who are important to me. They have brought people into my life and back into my life who probably wouldn't have found their way there if these didn't exist. Social media affords me the opportunity to actively participate in their lives on a consistent basis and I feel like I always know what's going on in their worlds.
I am grateful for my sense of humour and easy going nature; my lack of giving a deep rooted shit about what others do in their lives or my need to voice my opinion. There are just too many nay sayers out there now that feel like their opinion of what other people do (when it's not actually hurting others) is warranted or wanted. I'm glad I'm not one of those people. I'm grateful for not being uptight. I'm thankful for having an open mind.
On the flip side, I'm thankful for my ability to judge others and still find something positive about them.
Despite everything I'm thankful for my ex-husband who contributed to the existence of two of my most favourite human beings. I'm grateful that despite all the hiccups through the years we have still remained on friendly terms and my boys love him and enjoy spending time with him.
I'm thankful for my in-laws, who I'm pretty sure like me even when Eric tells me they'd never let on if they didn't, so I'll never really know. I'm thankful for being welcomed into their fold and I'm super grateful they've welcomed my boys into their world. I'm grateful for feeling at home in their house and the comfort I have opening the refrigerator without asking first. That's huge!
But especially for this weekend, I'm super-dee-duper grateful for two hot meals cooked for me. Food always tastes better when someone else prepares it. I'm kidding (probably not)...I'm thankful for the opportunity to spend time with some of those crazy people I mention above, this weekend.
So again, Happy Thanksgiving everyone. I hope you are blessed to be able to spend some time with the people who mean the most to you. I hope you steal a chance to reflect on what's important in your life and what isn't. Please make the most of what you have been given and find the good around you.